One of the most amazing things I have witnessed as a mother is the change that takes place in my children after some "one-on-one" time. I can go through the day trying to get various things done while Evelyn rolls around on the floor and little John is busy throwing balls off the wall. Observed play. But there comes a time when they are cranky or whiny. I am tempted to put them in bed for another nap. Instead I put down my book, leave the dishes and laundry undone and get down on the floor.
Evelyn loves to be tickled or to play "peek-a-boo", little John prefers to be chased or to play "bowling" or whatever requires allot of movement. Like I said, it's amazing. Just 10 or 15 minutes of uninterrupted playtime seems to re-fuel them. They are happier in pursuing their own activities, or even in helping me in mine. The bonus is that I feel better too! I've had a break from what I thought was important and was reminded of what my real priority is.
Our children and even the youth around us are really hungry for positive attention. I went to the library the other day and ended up coloring with little John at a table. There was only one other little girl sitting nearby. As we talked about what we were drawing she kept peeking over and handing us more crayons. Finally we were all sitting together, deciding what to draw and what colors we needed. Little John lost interest and wandered off but this girl was determined. She told me not to get up, that she would go get him. :) It was like we were sponges. I was dripping wet and she was trying to hold on to as much of my moisture as she could. I hope I was able to brighten her day a little.
Anyway, I really love this little clip, taken from a talk by Elder Hales. It has a powerful and true message.
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